I’ve read many times, “You are responsible for your own happiness.” I believe that to be true, but…
What happens when we begin giving away pieces of our happiness? Do we have to stop and refill our happy? Can our happy become depleted?
This is the cup and saucer called life.
I used to believe, having my cup full was enough, but it’s not. I can sit down to write, and sip along on a cup of tea or coffee without really paying attention to how many sips I’ve taken. One more sip and I’m staring into an empty cup. It happened by repetition.
It’s the same way with our happy.
One moment it’s there, and the next, it’s gone.
Then a very dear friend offered a revelation.
It felt like she handed me a gift. It was a shift in perspective, and changed my thinking forever!
The teacup sits in a saucer to catch the drips, or in my friends words, ‘the overflow’.
She taught me how to fill myself up, and once it flows into the saucer, give that part of me away. People should drink from the overflow. Protect your cup.